I thought about it and decided we should do the same thing. I think date nights are so important to relationships- keeping them fresh, keeping focused on each other, keeping a little bit of the spark alive. We go out to eat every now and then, sure, but I mean a real "focus on each other" date night. We get so caught up in the rush of grabbing dinner that we don't make it special anymore- it's just dinner. When we were dating we went out all the time- we had two incomes and could afford eating out four+ nights a week.
The ninth night of every month we have declared: NINES ON THE NINES! It's our Mandatory Monthly Date Night. We'll get all dressed to the nines and go out for a fancier date night. Well, we failed this month because we overbooked the day. In our defense, we did shower and get dressed a little fancy... casual fancy :D
We headed to a cute little Mexican restaurant in Temecula called El Torito. We have not had Mexica since hubs has been back home!
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| And trust, I make him act like a complete tourist! My time hosting and taking pictures of people gives me enough stories so we don't look too awkward! |
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| The entrance to our Mexican Date Night |
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| This is a waterfall! |
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| Someone's a LUSH! We haven't even ordered food yet and his is GONE! |
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| Absolute deliciousness. Side Note: That bracelet is one of the many gifts hubs got me from deployment! It came all the way from the Philippines! Nail Polish: "Big Hair... Big Nails" by O.P.I. |
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| My handsome hubs, gazing lovingly at his beautiful wife! |
Cuddles and Kisses,
The Mrs.






Date nights are so great, unfortunately with kids we rarely ever get a date night :(
ReplyDeleteFun. Yea, I'm with Melissa. I have a toddler and not a single baby sitter I trust, so.... date nights happen a few times a year at best.
ReplyDeleteI'm loving the color of your nails!! Fun!! So if you ever decide to do a date night down in San Diego, I highly recommend going to the Top of the Hyatt (literally the top floor of the Hyatt Hotel on the Harbor by Seaport Village). We went there just to get drinks and then they have appetizers and snack mix and what not. The view is breathtaking and I remember just feeling all fancy being there!!!
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with the person above me, I LOVE your nail color... =)
ReplyDeleteWe try to have regular "dates" but they aren't date nights. Honestly, it's pretty rare for us to do the dressed up/fancy dinner thing! Brandon's schedule is crazy and always changing, so we have to shoot for smaller goals-- afternoon coffee shop dates, things like that. Love your fancy date nights though! Hope we get a chance to have one of those soon.
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad you included the color of your nail polish because I was THISCLOSE to sending you a message asking what it was!!!
ReplyDelete<3 you!
I totally agree with date night! My husband and I made a pact that not matter how crazy life gets etc. our "us" time is important too! Especially with deployments - you have to make the most of what time you have together because you just never know when the next extended absence is set to occur.
ReplyDeleteProps to you - and LOVE the nail color :)